Writing A Letter, And Other Odds And Ends

I disappeared from the blog this week to take care of sick kids. Poor M has had her first serious illness–well, really it was a combination of three minor illnesses that sent her into a spiral. She had hand, foot, and mouth disease, which is so common among 18-month-olds, on top of an upper respiratory viral infection and an ear infection. Her body just freaked out on Sunday morning, and she had a febrile seizure and turned blue before we could get her to the ER. Honestly, I’m still struggling with the febrile seizure–even though I’ve been assured that the seizures themselves aren’t life-threatening–and I can’t even write about all that happened yet.

But, M is feeling better, which always makes Mama feel better!

I’m also trying to get our ducks in a row for our move at the end of the month. Though we’ve moved plenty of times, this is our first move with children, and I dread it. I mostly hate taking the kids away from their school and their friends, and I know it will be a challenge to keep things relatively normal for them during the actual move. I try to remind myself how flexible kids are and that this will be a good thing for our family.

My writing project for this week is to compose a letter to J for his 4th birthday, which is in a month. How did this idea just now dawn on me? I think I’ll make it a tradition for the kids, but I really wish I had started it years ago. The upside to being the firstborn is that you get all the firsts and all the pictures. The downside: your parents learn as they go with you!

My letter idea is that it’s a way to reflect on how the kids have changed in a year, what they love at a specific age, and all the funny things they say and do. I’m behind on editing photos, I gave up on baby books (I guess I understand why my mom left my baby book incomplete), and I should have finished J’s scrapbook nearly three years ago. But, one thing I know I can do? I can write a letter.

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