Seeking a Second Opinion or Finding a New Doctor

Heart Problems

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On Friday, I was over at Preemie Babies 101 with a blog post about second opinions. Here’s an excerpt:

You know that feeling when you’ve just left the NICU after a long day, your cell phone rings, and you recognize that the number is the NICU?

My husband and I had just returned home from the hospital. I knew my son was scheduled for a follow-up cardiology exam because of a heart murmur, but since so many preemies havePDAs, I really wasn’t concerned.

The NICU nurse on the other end of the line told me that the cardiologist wanted to speak with me, and before I knew what had happened, I had a diagnosis. And it wasn’t a PDA. I had no idea if it was life-threatening or what J’s prognosis was. I was shell-shocked and nearly speechless. As I stumbled through my questions, I realized quickly that I was getting nowhere because the pediatric cardiologist had no interest in speaking with me. So, I asked her if she was writing a report to go in J’s records. Her answer?

“Yes, I’ll write a report, but you won’t understand it.”

The rest of the blog post is available at Preemie Babies 101.

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